02.04.08
Posted in Christian, Faith, Firearms, Freedom, Politics, Religion at 8:19 am by
With 2008 being a presidential election year, we are now about past the middle of the active electioneering that’s been going on since last year. There’s a recurring theme I keep hearing from dyed in the wool members of the supposed “conservative” party and that is “Anyone but a Democrat!” It matters not what the so called “Republican” stands for, all they need to do is say “I’m a REPUBLICAN!” and folks will vote for them. But that’s not what bothers me the most, and is only partially the reason for this post.
What really “gets my goat” is the attitude that “We have to vote for the ‘lesser of two evils’.” The lesser of two evils - is still evil. Let’s see. On one side we have Democrats who are in favor of the sodomite agenda to demean and dishonor marriage by twisting it to include their unholy unions. And they are also in favor of executing unborn children who have done no harm to anyone. And they are in favor of prohibiting the free use of weapons by ordinary, upright citizens. And they are in favor of granting amnesty to the millions of foreign nationals who have violated our laws and invaded our land. On the other hand we have Republican candidates who are in favor of the sodomite agenda to demean and dishonor marriage by twisting it to include their unholy unions. And they are also in favor of executing unborn children who have done no harm to anyone. And they are in favor of prohibiting the free use of weapons by ordinary, upright citizens. And they are in favor of granting amnesty to the millions of foreign nationals who have violated our laws and invaded our land. So, what’s to choose from? Does it really matter which party drags the country into the mud?
Now, I know I’m generalizing and not all the candidates openly support the issues outlined above - but they ALL have abominable track records on one or more of the issues above, issues I’m convinced are of vital importance to the nation. And yet, when one says “Send me a truly conservative candidate who will obey and enforce the US Constitution, uphold moral values, secure our borders and decrease the interference of the Federal government in individual citizens’ lives” people tell me “If you DON’T vote Republican you’ll be putting a DEMOCRAT in the oval office!”
I’ve got news for the Republican party. If they want to REALLY do something POSITIVE and garner the support of the sector of the US population that holds onto traditional values -THEN QUIT TREATING US LIKE IDIOTS BY OFFERING UP LIBERALS IN CONSERVATIVE CLOTHING!!!! If the Republican party endorses a liberal candidate and tries to cram them down the throats of voters with strict conservative beliefs - they are the ones who will be responsible for keeping conservatives away from the polls. Telling us that WE are responsible for the failure of a liberal Republican to win the presidential race is like telling a woman that she is responsible for the actions of a rapist.
I’ve made it clear that I will not be kidnapped. I will not go along with evil men merely because they threaten my life. Nor will I go with them because they threaten the lives of someone else. I will not go along with them because I do not agree with what they are doing. If they kill someone else or if they kill me because I refuse to cooperate - THEY ARE THE ONES WHO PULL THE TRIGGER - NOT ME. In other words, any innocent blood shed is not by my hand but theirs. In the same way, those who offer up a liberal, pro sodomy, pro abortion, pro amnesty for law breaking aliens, pro higher taxes and anti second amendment (or any combination of the above) candidate and say “Vote for them or else” are giving me the same option as those who would attempt to force me to acquiesce to their demand to accompany them at the point of a gun. I simply will not be coerced into violating my principles.
To those who are running the supposed “conservative” party I say “Give me a REAL conservative or I’ll seek out my own. And so will others who are also tired of voting against someone. Give us a leader who will honor the Constitution and the foundations of our nation, give us someone to vote FOR, who represents our values from the heart - or YOU will be responsible for the continued downward spiral of the nation as we sink lower and lower into the moral abyss - one “lesser evil” at a time.
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12.27.07
Posted in Christian, Faith at 4:05 pm by
Have you ever stopped to think “What’s the meaning of my life?” Have you ever wondered “Is there something more than living, breathing, eating and sleeping until my body gives up and quits?” Or do you live each day of your life merely seeking some kind of narrow fulfillment of your own narrow desires and will?
I’m reminded of the outlook of the five missionaries who gave their lives willingly, so that a tiny indian tribe might hear the Gospel message. And the words of the Pilgrims, on the Mayflower Pact - that they were come to this new land “for the glorie of God”. What do we do, each day, to fulfill that purpose? Do we realize that each day, each moment we are part of a larger plan? Do we really understand that there IS a larger plan? Are we willing participants, or do we, like Pharaoh, harden our hearts time after time until God then hardens our heart for our destruction?
As we come into a new year of life, may we all keep in mind that there IS a bigger picture - and there’s more to life than our own personal, narrow goals, aims and desires.
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12.14.07
Posted in Christian, Faith at 5:20 pm by
Yes, he couldn’t believe it. And I didn’t tell him how much over 35 I am. He’s working through a problem with addiction - on many levels. All we can do at this point is keep pointing to Christ - the only One who can give us the strength we need to stand strong in the face of temptation.
So, is it such a “strange” thing for someone to make it to middle age without ever being under the influence of drugs such as alcohol and marijuana? To some folks it is. You should see their reaction when we tell them that we married at 21 - as virgins. In today’s society people seem to think that sinking to the “lowest common denominator” is the way to go. As Christians we should strive to reach a higher plane, a higher way of living - and to help others to raise up over the siren call of our fallen culture in order to also stand on a higher level.
It’s not easy, but it IS possible. It takes more than a casual effort to do so, however, and thus may seem like “too much of a challenge” to some folks.
But people need to know “It IS possible to live a life that is pleasing to Christ.” They need to know that they TOO can raise above the muck and mire and walk “in newness of life”. Although I managed to make it to adulthood (and beyond) sober, I found plenty of other ways to sully my path. We all have weaknesses in one way or another and we all need the redeeming blood of Christ to wipe us clean, to allow us to walk near to God instead of along our own miry way.
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11.29.07
Posted in Christian, Faith, Religion at 7:18 am by
The following article is one that I received from Frontline Fellowship. It was written by Peter Hammond and is a look at what some of the hazards of missionary work can be. Not all hazards are from “evil pagans” who may wish to end one’s life and service, all too often one’s very “team mates” or folks on a “missions trip” can also distract one from the work to which one has been called. I’m reminded of the Apostle Paul’s litany of things which he had endured for the sake of Christ and the Gospel - not much has changed in 2000 years when it comes to danger for a missionary.
Five times I received from the Jews 40 lashes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods. Once I was stoned. Three times I was shipwrecked. I have spent a night and a day in the depths of the sea. On frequent journeys, I faced dangers from rivers, dangers from robbers, dangers from my own people, dangers from the Gentiles, dangers in the city, dangers in the open country, dangers on the sea, and dangers among false brothers; labor and hardship, many sleepless nights, hunger and thirst, often without food, cold, and lacking clothing. Not to mention other things, there is the daily pressure on me: my care for all the churches. II Corinthians 11:24-28
Anyway, without further ado - here’s the article - re-”printed” here with permission from www.frontline.org.za
From the very first day that I heard the Gospel of Christ, 4 April 1977, I have been called to missions. For over thirty years The Great Commission has been my supreme ambition. Starting with distributing Gospels of John door-to-door in Pinelands, being a Group Leader in Scripture Union Holiday Missions, teaching Sunday School, running Youth Groups and coffee-bar outreaches, ministering in old-age homes, mass literature distribution at railway stations and bus stops, then working in Hospital Christian Fellowship, starting a Bible Study and Prayer Fellowship in the army which met every night and led many soldiers to Christ, through to the launch of Frontline Fellowship, over 25 years ago, the last command of Christ has been my first concern.
I’ve had the privilege of ministering in 27 countries, on four continents. This has involved well over 11 000 meetings, including many missions camps and conferences, and conducting Great Commission Courses.
There is no doubt that the harvest is very large and the workers are far too few. However, I’ve become increasingly concerned about how ill-prepared most mission volunteers are on entering the field. Also disturbing is how little discernment is evidenced in all too many cases.
Over the years, I have tried to give an honest and balanced report on the problems, frustrations and difficulties of the field, without unduly glamourising missions. Of course one wants to encourage and inspire fellow Believers to wholehearted commitment to world missions, but, even from the earliest years of Frontline Fellowship, I have felt the need to also issue words of warning and caution as to the real dangers and difficulties involved. The Lord warned us to count the cost and much of what I have heard in different missions conferences seem to be setting up well-meaning people for inevitable disappointment, and even disaster.
The recent tragic story of seven international missionaries being robbed and abused in Zimbabwe prompted me to begin thinking about writing this article. Then the report back of one of our co-workers on his three and a half month mission to Congo impressed on me even further the importance of this article. We need mental toughness, emotional strength, spiritual discernment and a resilience to persevere in spite of the many discouragements, dangers and deceptions looming in most fields.
Certainly, in my 25 years experience in foreign missions, I have experienced thefts and threats, not only from the pagans, but from false brethren and false shepherds within the church. Right from my very first mission trip to Mozambique, in 1982, there were the greedy and malicious back stabbers and traitors quick to steal and to report one to the local communist commissar.
The trouble is, the vast majority of missionary volunteers give up before completing their first term in the field. Many short-term missionary volunteers only go once, and, whether because of negative experiences in cross cultural confusion, misunderstandings, sickness or thefts, for one reason or another, fail to return to the field ever again.
Enormous resources are being spent on training, preparing and transporting to the field missionary volunteers who don’t persevere, and return home within weeks or months – never to venture into any mission field again.
In 1989 I led a team of 6 American medical missionary volunteers to Mozambique. Within days we were captured, arrested and imprisoned, mistreated by the SNASP Secret Police and incarcerated in solitary confinement at Machava Security Prison in Maputo. Not surprisingly, none of those volunteers have returned to the field since.
However, one of the members of an Evangelism Explosion team that I took to Sudan in 2000 has continued to return multiple times since, despite us being bombed by the Sudan Air Force on Sunday morning.
Of course, one expects persecution from anti-Christian, Marxist and Muslim, regimes when working in restricted access areas. However, most missionaries are not prepared for the blatant theft from those they have felt called to serve. Yet even missions dedicated to establishing hospitals and schools amongst desperately needy people have been cheated and attacked by the very communities they are seeking to serve, stolen from by staff, and looted by the local community.
We should not be too surprised. Even Jesus had His Judas amongst His twelve hand picked Disciples. Although Judas was entrusted with the finances of the Apostles, he was a thief, not only stealing from the Lord Himself, but even betraying Him for mere money.
I know of all too many cases of missionaries who have faced muggings and manipulation in the field, threats and theft, being used and abused, not only from the local people to whom they were sent, but even by fellow Christians. Not only stolen from by local believers, but by fellow “missionaries” and “co-workers.”
This may be a shock to many people wanting to get involved in missions. When I first became a Christian it never crossed my mind that someone could claim to be a Christian and yet be malicious or devious. Not that we would not only be cheated and abused by local Believers and fellow missionaries, but also by overseas ministries and churches.
All too often there are those who don’t pay their bills, fail to fulfill their promises, never keep up their end of the work load, and happily run up huge expenses which they leave for the local missionary that they are meant to be “supporting”. While they return to engage in brilliant fund raising campaigns entirely built upon deception.
In dealing with guests from other ministries, we have sometimes been horrified by dishonest and unethical practices and claims. Some, who merely participated on one field trip with our mission, have gone on to make incredibly extravagant claims in their fundraising letters and videos. One launched an entire ministry with an impressive marketing campaign based entirely based on false claims and plagiarism. Pretending responsibility for Frontline Fellowship shipments and ministry activities in Sudan, one individual, who was merely a junior guest of a large team with no significant ministry role, later claimed to have been the leader of the entire operation, quoting all of our statistics of Bibles delivered, ministry conducted, flights chartered are his accomplishment.
Another individual, who came in on one Frontline Fellowship mission trip to Sudan and participated in the first few days of our Teacher Training Courses, leaving early, later claimed to have set up a couple of dozen schools in the area, and requested funds for his “staff” there. Needless to say, none of the teachers or pastors in the area were aware of any such activity. On numerous occasions we have been asked to arrange flights for overseas “missionaries” who later have left us to pay all their bills without so much as a contribution.
One needs to be aware of those who will happily send you on a fools errand. The book of Proverbs warns us about fools busy with some fantasy and unworkable project. There are people who want to live on your faith and want you to do their work for them. A mission in the hand is worth dozens of visions and concepts “in the planning stage”. They live by presumption – not by faith.
There is a desperate need for absolute honesty and integrity. We need to be people of our word, say what we mean, and mean what we say. And we need discernment, precautions and a basic understanding of security principles. Otherwise we could be guilty of sending out dedicated missionary volunteers who will fall victim to muggings, theft, rape and murder. All of this has happened to mission volunteers in the field.
Then there are the financial scams from false brethren who pretend to have all kinds of ministries and exploit well-meaning Westerners with their slick fundraising letters and e-mails. As we actually travel to the field, we have been able to expose numerous of these “pastors” as the real pastors in the area have taken us to meet the well supported frauds in the local bar!
Then there are the cross cultural opportunists and exploiters who seek sponsorships to travel the world and attend various missions conferences, only to gather as many names and addresses and e-mails as possible in order to soak well-meaning, but naïve, Westerners with emotive fund raising scams. “Can you just help with some money?”. Others try the politics of pity and guilt manipulation to get an American or European wife (and therefore a passport to the West): “God told me to marry you…!”
You would find it hard to believe how many times we have come across cross cultural opportunists attempting to guilt manipulate some Western girl into marriage. Even “pastors” who are already married. If you ever doubted the Biblical Doctrine of the depravity of man, you will find more than enough examples to verify it in the mission field, and even at missions conferences.
The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing. We need to seek first God’s Kingdom and His righteousness. The Great Commission must be our supreme ambition. Nothing must be allowed to distract or deviate us from that. We are called to build God’s Kingdom, not to enrich false brethren, false shepherds and false prophets. We are to have faith in God, not in human nature. We are to trust the Lord, not be gullible victims of con artists.
If we want to be effective in the Lord’s service, we need to protect our time and our limited resources from the unscrupulous and manipulative. Because of the abundance of free-loaders, who inevitably are attracted to the rich pickings and targets of opportunity at missions conferences, we now insist on early morning PT and prayer meetings to weed out those who have another agenda. Of course, false brethren are able to put on a good act, but we find that as our Great Commission Courses progress with daily PT and prayer meetings, outreaches and late-night hikes, we begin to see the real person under the veneer.
There is no substitute for track record. We need to test all things. It is remarkable how many “pastors” and “bishops” turn out to be Bible illiterates when you compel them to complete our multiple choice Bible Exam!
There are so many frauds, fools, con artists and opportunists seeking to take advantage of missions. A large percentage of funds earmarked for missions don’t really reach the Lord’s work because of the abundance of dishonest scams and unworkable schemes which manage to intercept and hijack what is meant for God’s service.
This may not be a pleasant message to hear or acknowledge, but it is the truth. The world should have already been evangelised and discipled several times over if everything that is being said to be done, was actually being done. It is time for us to shine the light of God’s Word on some of the shady dealings of professional fund-raisers and con-men who have found an abundance of gullible and naïve Christians to exploit under the guise of “missions”.
We owe it to our Lord Jesus Christ to be watchful and alert, wise and discerning, taking proper precautions to avoid becoming a victim, so that we can be effective in real missions.
God’s work, done God’s way, will never lack God’s supply.
Only one life it will soon be passed, only what’s done for Christ will last.
Dr Peter Hammond
Frontline Fellowship
P.O. Box 74, Newlands, 7725, Cape Town, South Africa
www.frontline.org.za
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11.24.07
Posted in Christian, Faith at 9:56 am by
Many things seem to take forever to reach us down here. Last year I finally got a copy of Sean Hannity’s “Deliver Us From Evil” and also a copy of “Dereliction of Duty”, not to mention more entertaining reading like “Hell, I was there!”. Well, I finally got to see “End Of The Spear” last night. It’s been out a while, but not as long as the books mentioned above. Since we take Fridays as our “Family Day” we decided to grab a burger at Tim’s favorite street corner burger/dog stand and then grab a movie to watch.
For those of you who are not familiar with the title, “End Of The Spear” is the story of the five missionaries who were killed by a tribe of indians in Ecuador back in the 1950’s. At the time they called the tribe the “Auca” but now they are known as the Waodani. This movie tells much of the story that is found in the old book “Through Gates Of Splendor”, but from the perspective of Steve Saint and Mincayani, the man who killed Nate Saint.
The movie makes the case for Christian mission work to far off tribes without being preachy. The superstition, fear and violence too often found in “stone age” tribes gives the lie to the myths of “the noble savage” and “they are happy, just the way they are”. When the Waodani came face to face with the Christian world view as demonstrated by the five missionaries they killed and their families who forgave them rather than exacting revenge like the Waodani expected, they found the path to a new way of thinking, a freer way of living than the old vicious cycle of revenge and fear killings.
I highly recommend this movie - even if you’ve never yet read “Through Gates Of Splendor” nor know the story of Nate Saint, Jim Elliot, Ed McCully, Peter Fleming, and Roger Youderian - the men who gave their lives willingly so that many who lived in darkness could come to the Light.
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10.27.07
Posted in Christian, Faith at 11:05 am by
There is a subtle undermining of the foundations of our society. Well, at least it is subtle to the vast majority of our population. We have allowed humor and “the arts” to bend our way of thinking, of perceiving the world around us. When I listen to music or “comedy” or watch a movie or read a book or article, I attempt to have filters activated, to seek out things that are subtle and yet dangerous, much like a viper crawling through the grass. You may not pay much attention, but it can kill you.
Last night we watched a movie. I think the title in English is “License to Wed”. It stars Robin Williams as a “cool reverend”, a warm hearted guy who would NEVER do something unconscionable like confront people about the sin in their lives. Bit by bit he is given the place that Christ should have - but without the uncomfortable issue of “Go and sin no more” - after all, there’s barely a mention of sin at all except in a “humorous” way via a catechism class in which the kids learn paraphrased versions of the Ten Commandments via a knock off of a game show. Early on in the movie one learns that “Father Frank is everywhere” - another usurpation of Christ’s position, this is mentioned at least once or twice more, in an attempt to knock home the idea that “Father Frank’s” ideas are an updated and modern and wholly healthy new approach to life in our modern world with none of that old fashioned sin problem to hinder a happy life.
Throughout the movie one is told time after time in various ways that living together prior to marriage is a normal and logical part of the whole marriage process. The movie starts out with Father Frank’s voice narrating the “logical progression” in a “humorous” way, leading from a chance encounter to a first date, a first kiss, a first “I love you”, a first AUDIBLE “I love you” (insinuating that such a declaration logically leads to sexual intercourse) to living together. Only after some time of living together does the guy even consider proposing.
Now, the movie DOES have some good points. It shows the importance of communication. What it DOESN’T show is how early physical involvement pretty much sounds the death knell to genuine communication. It is assumed that early physical involvement is natural and inevitable and is part of life, so there. One can only wonder what would have happened if the couple had actually gotten to know each other prior to getting “to know” each other. What if they’d spent time in conversation about matters of importance? What if they’d actually had their spiritual lives in order and had put Christ first on their agenda?
Another disturbing part of this movie was the idea that horrible conflict is normal and natural in a relationship. In a role playing skit the young couple of soon to be newly weds is asked to act out a scene in which they have to respond to a flat tire while out of cell phone range (can’t call AAA) and basically lost on a back road in a down pour. It is assumed that such a situation will lead to conflict. Their calm acting out of a caring interchange between caring people is said to be fake. Such a situation MUST bring conflict and so another couple is called into play to “do it right” - resulting in an abusive interchange of demeaning comments. Their performance is applauded. Why? Why is it assumed that a couple must abuse each other? There is only ONE example of a semi good relationship between married people - the girl’s parents who’ve been married for 30 years - and yet who also seem to have some issues. I can attest that severe problems on a back road do NOT have to result in mutual abuse. Our years working in Brazil with everything from clutch plates to brake lines breaking while in the middle of no where never once resulted in a relationship melt down. In fact, working together we were able to overcome time after time.
One of the greatest problems in our society today is the use of “humor” to degrade the foundations of s strong society. The shows that cast dads in the light of incompetent idiots who’s only redeeming qualities are the wonderful spouse they somehow managed to entrap subtly tell us that men are idiots no matter what. The kids who precociously solve problems that the stupid adults around them cause show us that kids don’t need parents, they can get along well on their own. The “humorous” allusions to deviant lifestyles as perfectly normal, even desirable, tell us that God’s ideas are dead.
So, why do we allow this things to go unchallenged? Why do we allow this filth to permeate our society? Do we teach our kids what is right? Do we ask them to analyze, to think? If we don’t change the way we think, if we conform ourselves to the current age, then we will NOT be the holy sacrifice that God wants and asks us to be. Only through a renewal of our thoughts and minds can we become again a strong and thriving society.
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10.18.07
Posted in Christian, Faith, Religion at 8:30 am by
Yesterday I read a note about someone being “un-apologetically Christian”. Now, there’s a lot of things that tickle my funny bone and the way we use language is one of those. So when I hear of someone who’s “disgruntled” I wonder what being gruntled is like, and so on and so forth. Therefore it was inevitable that I’d start thinking about being “apologetically Christian”.
Now, at first blush, it’d seem almost like saying “I’m ashamed of being a Christian” - unless you look at it from angle of Christian Apologetics. Now from THAT angle you see something far different. Christian Apologetics is the opposite of being ashamed of one’s beliefs. Apologetics is the reasoned defense of the Christian faith. And even though some folks claim that Christianity is merely superstition based on antique fables from foreign cultures, there is a LOT of evidence upon which we can show that the Christian faith is solidly grounded on factual evidence. The apostle Peter wrote “but set apart the Messiah as Lord in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you. ” (I Peter 3:15 HCSB) so the idea of giving a defense for our hope is not a recent one.
There are many resources from which the Christian can draw useful material for this purpose. Josh McDowell’s books “Evidence That Demands A Verdict” and “More Evidence That Demands A Verdict” are excellent sources, as is “The Case For Christ” by Lee Strobel. Does God Exist is a website where you can examine evidence for the very existence of God. There are many other sources as well and it is not the purpose of this piece to provide an exhaustive source of material. A good place to start is on the internet. Open your favorite search engine and do a search on “Creation Science” or “Christian Apologetics”. Those will give you hours of reading and study material. Our goal is merely to get you to thinking about the idea of becoming “apologetically Christian” and to urge you to be proactive about it.
Over the years I’ve seen folks get very violent and angry when their beliefs are questioned. My observance is that this is usually the result of having very shallow and unsubstantiated beliefs. When one love’s the truth and seeks it out, when others question one’s beliefs one is better prepared to give a reasoned argument for why one believes as one does. So, get busy! Start digging. There’s a world of evidence for the Christian faith out there. Don’t be lazy about it, take time and learn. Then you will be prepared to be apologetically Christian and will also be prepared to show others the way to The Way.
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10.13.07
Posted in Christian, Faith at 10:11 am by
That is how the message started. And it is one I’ve seen before, too many times. The heartache, anger and sorrow brought about by sundering “what God hath joined” is all to common in our fallen world. Why has it become so common? Why do we no longer seem to care that people no longer are married “until death do us part”?
As a society we take it for granted that folks will sunder their marriage. We take it for granted that a man and woman will be at each others’ throats until finally they “cut the blanket” (as a local saying goes). But it should not be this way. The Bible teaches us that marriage is honorable. It teaches us to live peacefully in our homes. But folks insist on going their own ways.
Perhaps this post is simplistic, but sometimes simplistic things are more profound than they seem on the surface. The fact of the matter is, divorce starts before marriage. Divorce starts within the way we look at life. Our world view is reponsible for the decisions we make and the actions we take. When a man and/or woman goes into marriage thinking “If it doesn’t turn out we can always get a divorce” - that marriage is doomed. When someone chooses a marriage partner because of “how good they are in bed” - that marriage will be raised on shaky ground - probably resulting in a failure.
When my wife and I got married it was with the full intent of “until death do us part”. We got married because we had similar goals and outlooks on life. We got married because of what we had in common. We got married because together we could go further in life than separately. Have we had a “perfect marriage”? No. The first years were hard because I as a husband was not being the leader that I should have been. There were conflicts as there are always conflicts of one kind or another when people live so close to each other. And as the head of the house I knew not how to handle them well. Like Adam it was easier to blame “that woman you made for me” rather than looking inside at my own fallibility. It was much easier to cry to God “Change her!” than it was to come before Him on bended knee to say “Help me become the man YOU want me to be.”
And then it finally started to sink in. The only one I could change was ME. The answer to living better together was to change how I related to her. As I started to look on her as the “help meet” that God had created for me rather than as the “person who drives me crazy”, I also started treating her differently. And she started reacting to me differently too. Have we “lived happily ever after”? No, I still mess up. But rather than try to change my wife I work on the one I CAN overhaul - ME. And gradually we have grown together, like God planned from the beginning.
So, for you young folk out there, how can you avoid divorce? First, keep your pants zipped and your hands to yourself. Allowing yourself to fall into sexual intimacy before you are married blurs your judgment. When the hormones kick in the old brain clicks off. Get to know folks from the opposite sex as people, as friends. When you find someone with whom you share ideas and goals, check and see if you also share the same values - especially when it comes to the lordship of Jesus the Christ in your life. And then start to see if perhaps you could travel along The Way together - towards the goals God has put in your hearts.
For a Christian there should never be any doubt about whether or not to date someone who doesn’t share your faith. Simply don’t do it. Dating is often the first step towards marriage so only date potential marriage partners, folks with whom you have already developed a friendship - folks who share your religious and other views. Minimizing potential conflicts before marriage (by staying away from folks who don’t share your world view, values and goals) will make adjustments easier later on in your life after you are joined in matrimony.
Once you are married, learn to “fight fair”. There’s a ton of books out there on conflict resolution. Learn to communicate. And guys? Learn to love your wife as Christ loves the church. Learn to be the head of the household who looks after the body with care. Treat your wife with true love, not lust. Look upon her as the Bride that Christ prepared for you, and treat her with honor. Wives? Look with respect upon the man you have chosen. Don’t be caught up in the false feminism of the world. Be transformed by renewing your mind according to God’s design. Don’t be afraid to allow your husband to lead your family. If you have doubts, don’t get married. AFTER you’re married is not the time to try to make that sow’s ear into a silk purse. Marry a man, not a project.
To avoid divorce you should build your life on Christ, and then seek a person who has built their life on Christ as well. That way you’re on the same foundation and can more easily bridge the gaps. Keep your eyes wide open before you ever propose or accept a proposal. Don’t be afraid to walk away from a relationship that isn’t according to God’s plan. This will help you to choose more wisely the person you will marry. And after marriage, keep your eyes half closed. Don’t look for faults, look for the good in the partner you have chosen for Life’s Journey. And above all, keep Christ in the center. He is the TRUE substance and unifying force in the world’s strongest marriages.
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10.11.07
Posted in Christian, Faith at 11:16 am by
I just got news that a man I’ve known for years committed a sexual crime against a minor - then skipped the country to evade legal problems. Little things going way back now look like red warning flags. Why did we not pay attention? Why was this allowed to happen, was it due to negligence on the part of folks who should have known?
Warning signs: little children offering to show parts of their anatomy to visitors. Little children acting out things that we thought they’d learned from neighbors. A reluctance to participate in church activities. Always too busy for church activities, leadership meetings. Etc, etc, etc.
And now this. I don’t know the details, nor do I know if I WANT to know the details. This person needs help seriously - and so does his family. Not to mention the minor(s) who have been affected by this man. And once more Christ’s name has been brought low by someone who should have been a “pillar” in the church.
My heart is heavy, even though I know only that my Lord’s name has been sullied. May His light shine through the darkness caused by this situation, that is my prayer.
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10.10.07
Posted in Christian, Faith, Religion at 11:33 am by
I just got back from the weekly ministers’ association meeting. Once more we were regaled with a message of how we should look for the great and mighty moving, shaking glory of the Lord. Once more we were told that if God’s presence is REAL then it’s demonstrated by huge, thundering, glorious displays of unimaginable power. And once more I wondered about how folks can miss things as simple as the Word of God.
First, how does the Holy Spirit of God manifest Himself in the Christian’s life? How can a Christian KNOW that the Lord is “with him always, to the very ends of time”? The answer is simple - God keeps His word. He promised that if a person repents of their sin and is baptized for the forgiveness of those sins that they will receive the Holy Spirit as a gift. (Acts 2:38 - a promise to all who believe) Yes, it is true that God’s Spirit gives other gifts to God’s people, but those are not the true mark of the Spirit’s presence. If you’re walking through the forest and you see acorns on the ground you don’t expect to see a walnut tree directly overhead. Rather you expect to see an oak because that is what produces acorns. In the same way, the fruit of God’s Spirit is what the Spirit produces in the Christian’s life. And that is how we KNOW for sure that He is there.
And, just like acorns, the fruit starts small and grows over time. It does not burst full grown and ripe into the Christian’s life. Just as the acorn begins as a small, green bud, so does the Spirit’s fruit. And just as the acorn swells and grows and develops all the characteristics of a ripe acorn, so does the fruit of the Spirit grow and develop and mature over time.
I’d like to hear for once a message from I Kings 19, from when Elijah was fleeing from Jezebel - right after his great victory over the prophets of Baal on Mount Carmel. Here’s a man who has just won a serious spiritual battle, showing to an entire nation that God is indeed the Living and Righteous God. And yet he fled in terror at the rage of a hateful woman. And he fled to the desert and told God “I want to die.” God told him to step outside of the cave because He was about to pass that way. Here’s the passage I refer to:
Then He said, “Go out and stand on the mountain in the LORD’s presence.” At that moment, the LORD passed by. A great and mighty wind was tearing at the mountains and was shattering cliffs before the LORD, but the LORD was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the LORD was not in the earthquake. After the earthquake there was a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire. And after the fire there was a voice, a soft whisper. When Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his mantle and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. Suddenly, a voice came to him and said, “What are you doing here, Elijah?” I Kings 19:11-13 HCSB
God was NOT in the mighty wind. God was NOT in the earthquake. God was NOT in the fire. God spoke to Elijah in “a voice, a soft whisper”. How often we don’t stop to listen, to hear God whispering His will to our ear. How often we seek God in mighty, powerful, showy ways - and miss His voice whispering in the stillness.
Is God great and powerful and mighty? Obviously. But most often He shows Himself in the small things, the quite voice of His Spirit speaking to our need - if we would just listen.
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